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There are approximately 18000 parents registered with CARA, while the number of children in the Government's adoption pool is less 1800.

Sunday, July 29, 2007

Is it good to live a life of secret?

Adoption discussion # 4

This week, there was a study published in Australia saying that those adoptive children that came to know about the status of adoption at a later age have difficulties in their relationship with their adoptive parents brings a question to the fore "Is it good to live a life of secret"? More specifically with our adoptive children?

As I talk to many Indian adoptive families I see many educated families not believing in disclosing the truth. I've also heard of adoptive children in India having emotional difficulties because they've been told about their adoption at a later stage. Knowing what I know now, I'll make a general assumption: "Majority of Indians prefer to keep the truth about the adoption of their children a secret"

This assumption bring up a question "Why"? What makes Indians to prefer to keep the truth from disclosing to their children? Is it good? How can this changed? Do you know?

Write your comments in the comments section below.

1 comment:

Desiree said...


Respectfully, children are adopted at age 10 or over as well as under age 10.

Not including this possibility does not allow us to meaningfully complete your survey.